Travelling with a baby for the first time can be a daunting prospect. However with a bit of planning you will hopefully find that your first time flying with a baby could be easier than you thought. Babies are pretty portable and have quite simple needs. It’s actually much easier than flying with a toddler! We also have a great article on how to survive flying with a toddler for when you get to that stage.
All three of our children took their first flights when they were between four and six months old. I think this is a really good age for the first time flying with a baby. Hopefully baby is a bit more settled but is not yet on the move! M’s first flight was a 12 hour overnight flight to South Africa at four months old!
Here are the Mini Travel tribe’s top tips to help make your first time flying with a baby as stress free as possible.
Booking your flight
On most airlines these days you have to pay extra to choose your seats. However some airlines will let you choose your seat for free if you have an infant. Check with the airline when you book to find out.
Infants (under 2 years) usually travel for free (or a small fixed price per flight) if they sit on your knee. If you prefer you do have the option of buying a seat for your baby and using a car seat. If you are thinking of doing this you should check which types of car seats are permitted on your airline. Some airlines only allow forward facing car seats so this option is only really then useful for older babies/ toddlers.
If it is a long haul flight you will want to book the bulk head seats to get a bassinet for your baby. Check with the airline for the age/ weight guides for their bassinets. There is a good round up of the policies of major airlines here. We did a 12 hour overnight flight with M in a bassinet when she was 4 months old and it was the best flight with an infant that we have ever done! To her the bassinet was the same as her bed at home. I took her familiar infant sleeping bag with me and she slept for most of the flight! The people next to me were very pleasantly surprised I think!
In contrast we also did a 10 hour overnight flight when she was 20 months and we didn’t get a bassinet. With no seat of her own she was trying to sleep on me (I was also 6 months pregnant at the time!) which led to not much sleep for either of us!
Packing for the plane
Depending on how long your flight is, packing for the plane does not have to be too different to your everyday baby bag. It is a careful balance between having your essentials with you and not having a bag that is packed so full you can’t carry it!
My carry-on essentials with a baby are:
- Nappies/ wipes/ change mat. I tend to have these together in a pouch that I can just grab at nappy change time.
- Full change of clothes for baby. If you have quite a sicky baby you might want more than one depending on the length of your flight.
- Formula and bottles if baby is bottle fed. We have taken the ready made formula cartons through security and it isn’t usually a problem. When you are loading everything on the conveyor belt security will take it for it’s own separate scan. We have also taken tubs of formula powder and boiled water in the bottle, again they just scan the bottle separately. We have even taken cups of drinking water in a sippy cup through security and it has been fine.
- Snacks and baby food (if baby is past weaning).
- Dummy, if baby uses one.
- Muslin / burp cloths. M was constantly bringing back up half of her milk feeds so there were always at least two of these in our change bag! They are also handy for a cover up for breastfeeding, or a lightweight blanket.
- Baby toys. Depending on the age of your baby you might want 2-3 toys to entertain them with. Choose toys that you know they enjoy although the rest of the flight won’t appreciate particularly noisy toys! We found fabric books worked well. All three of ours also all loved the ‘winkel’ which is a great quiet rattle/ teether toy. The Tupperware tubs that snacks had been packed in often got played with more than any of the toys we took though!
At the airport
With a baby you are allowed two pieces of baby equipment on nearly all airlines. For us this was usually a pram/ push chair and then either a car seat or travel cot. This depended on where we were staying and how we were planning to move around. Obviously if you aren’t going to need these items don’t take them! The fewer items you have to carry around with you the better when you have a baby in tow!
When you check in you can choose to depart with your pram there and then or keep it until you board the plane. We usually keep ours with us, it’s a place to hang the change bag and store unworn coats/ jumpers! I know plenty of others that prefer to get rid of them and then use a sling to carry baby around the airport- it’s personal preference.
Even when we have taken the pram to the gate we usually take a sling with us on the plane. You often don’t get your pram back at the other end until the luggage carousel. In some airports this can be quite a while and depending on the size of your baby you may have a very achey arm by then! Having a sling for baby while getting on and off the plane also keeps your hands free to carry bags.
Boarding the plane
Many airlines offer priority boarding for families, this may come at a price for budget airlines. Some people like to be first on the plane to get settled. We have always preferred to be one of the last on the plane. It just means less time to be sat on the plane at the end of the day!
We usually try and do a nappy change just before we get on the flight as well. Aeroplane toilets aren’t known for their roominess and the change tables are quite cramped . Inevitably we then often get a series of nappy explosions on the plane but you might get lucky and not need to change a nappy on the flight (depending on how long it is).
As an infant your baby will be sat on your knee. The air host/ hostess will bring you an infant seat belt and life vest while still on the tarmac. Let the cabin crew know that it is your first time flying with a baby and they will generally be super helpful. They will show you how to use the seat belt if you’re not sure but it basically loops through your belt and then fastens around baby.
Mini Travel Tribe’s top 5 tips for a smooth flight:
- I always tried to breastfeed mine during take off and landing. This has a few benefits. It keeps them quiet and settled for a while. The sucking action should help to prevent little ear problems (we never had any probs with any of ours as babies). Also you may get the added bonus of them dropping off to sleep for a while! If you’re not breastfeeding a bottle or a dummy would work in the same way.
- Snack followed by drink followed by snack! If past the weaning stage a never-ending supply of healthy snacks is always a good option! If baby is not yet weaned you may find that they want more milk feeds than usual – it is much easier to get dehydrated in the air.
- When baby starts to get a bit unsettled a walk down the aisle for a change of scene can be a life saver. I like standing at the back of the plane and looking out of the window with baby. It was the way that we usually got ours to sleep, none of our three have ever been much good at just falling to sleep on our knee.
- Babies generally love people so make use of your fellow passengers to entertain them! When walking down the aisle of the plane ours all loved looking at all the people they passed. It is also highly likely that at least one or two people will engage with them and further entertain them for a while. This also works with allowing them to look over the back of your seat at the people behind you.
- My biggest tip is try to relax. Babies are really good at picking up on cues from their parents so if you are stressed they will be too. If baby is crying for a bit don’t worry about what anyone else on the flight is thinking. Remember that most people in life are genuinely really nice and sympathetic so won’t mind a baby making a bit of noise on a flight. If there are people that get annoyed (this is rare- in fact I have yet to experience it) ignore them and don’t let them get to you. Life is too short!
Enjoy your baby’s first flight experience!
Our first time flying with a baby was a four hour flight to Istanbul when C was five months old. She was brilliant on that flight and we were really looked after by the cabin crew. It is different to flying pre-children. Not so much time to read your book, although still doable if your baby has a nap! I admit we have had testing flights. Although this has mostly been once there were other children in the mix. The picture above is me with three small children all competing to sit on Mummy’s knee. Husband was there too but none of them were too interested in sitting on his knee unfortunately!
If it is your first time flying with a baby try to enjoy it! It is a big milestone in their little life and exciting for all of you. I love that travelling as a family I get to enjoy our destination through my children’s eyes too. What do you like most about family travel? I hope you have found some of these tips useful. Let us know if you have any of your own to add.